Practicing Awareness of Microaggressions

• Describe at least one example of a microaggression which you detected this week or remember from another time. In what context did the microaggression happen?

I have seen microaggression in many times of my life, it has happened directly to me or to someone I know. One example I have comes from my brother in law, he was driving one day with my younger brother and the cops stopped them. They asked for my brother in laws license and registration, well my brother in law did not have his wallet with him that day and because he looks “mexican” they wanted to deport him. When they finally realized that he was Puertorican and legal they felt stupid, and began to apologize for the mistake they had made.

Another time I have seen it is with my youngest son godmother, her first language is Spanish and she has always had a hard time with her English. But the hardest time came when she was trying to speak English with a parent and the parent could not and did not try to understand what she was trying to say, the parent told her to go back to school and learn English. After that day my son’s godmother tries not to speak English if she does not have to for the fear of people making fun of her.

My first example I believe is microinvalidations because the cops did not validate that my brother in law was telling the truth about being legal in this country. My second example is microinsult because the lady insulted my son’s godmother with her comment about learning English, not knowing that my son’s godmother is a very educated person and does speak English just with an accent.

• In what ways did your observation experiences this week affect your perception of the effects of discrimination, prejudice, and/or stereotypes on people

I have always been on the edge about this type of issue, because I know a lot of people that are directly affected with it. My husband is American from Ecuadorian parents, in reality if you just look at him (without talking to him) he looks like an illegal Hispanic. If you talk to him you would think he is puertorican, you have to sit and really have a conversation with him to know where he is originally from. And this is just one example of many that I have been a witness to.

Perspectives on Diversity and Culture

 Both of the friends I asked answered the same thing, culture; customs that are learned and that are repeated from generation to generations, Diversity; coming together from different cultures. The people I asked are completely different from me; they both live in different parts of the United States and see diversity and culture differently than I do.  Because both words are so strong both of my participants did not go into detail of what it meant for them, they both gave me a basic definition of what it means to them without a reasoning behind it.

Culture for me is everything a person is, things that are carried throughout each generation.  Food, language, expressions, body movements, traditions, holidays, religion, values, costumes, gender roles, and many more things that can define a person. Diversity is how different one person is from the next, even within the same culture.

Blog Assignment: My Family Culture

This is hard for me to choose three items that represent my family culture, because for me there is nothing physical that says what my culture is. For me culture is carried in; believes, our traditions, our customs, our language, our family expectations. This is really self explanatory, I am from Puerto Rico and my husband is from Ecuador, both of our family traditions, believes, customs, language, and everything else that I mentioned are imprinted in our personal identities.

When I was a child it was hard for my personal identity trying to keep who I am because we moved from Puerto Rico to Florida. The transition was hard because of the language barrier, believes, and tradition changes. I was not allowed to speak my own language in class, and some of our traditions began to fade because they are not practiced in the U.S. For example; The Three Kings Celebration, where the children gathered grass placed it in a shoe box and put it under the bed with a bowl of water for the camels, the three kings will leave a gift for each child.